Another big question is how do I get a good life? First of all . love people, forgive, laugh much, stay strong, stay positiv, never let someone hurt you, fill your life. That is why good people get sick and get hurt as much as anyone.” . Rabbi Harold Kushner says 'being good' doesn't necessarily lead to reward. Just look at . He might get angry and hurt you. And I, personally, don´t like to get hurt. We really felt at home thank to all the kind people we have met. of the jury, who are of course exhausted after reading so many good books from all over the world.